48 Lessons From My Brother, who became a Navy SEAL
Life provides many opportunities to reflect. Birthdays are one such occasion. Today, September 16th, is my brother's birthday. As I have reread his letters to share them with you over this past year, I have been astounded at the many life lessons Chris passed along to me. In the spirit of celebrating his life and what would have been his 48th birthday, I present to you... 48 lessons from my brother, who became a Navy SEAL.
1. Live in the moment - unexpected scenarios will arise.
2. Be present - opportunities for joy exist.
3. Play - every minute is precious.
4. Stay active - you'll live longer.
5. Be comfortable being alone - some of the best times are spent in solace.
6. Don't follow the crowd - adventure awaits.
7. Notice the beauty around you - it's everywhere.
8. Define your happy place - enjoy it.
9. Live life unregretfully - make choices that will help you achieve your goals.
10. Have fun - time passes quickly.
11. Connect with strangers - celebrate your shared humanity.
12. Slow down when you can - the grind will still be there.
13. Enjoy the good times - they might not be as frequent as you like.
14. Take chances - things might turn out pretty great.
15. Don't take things for granted - little things do matter.
16. Learn to live with things you don't understand - they will happen.
17. View imposed limitations as temporary - everything has an ending.
18. Reach out to others - you might make their day.
19. Make time to send a card - it shows you care.
20. Be thoughtful in your interactions - everyone has a story.
21. Show compassion - life can be painful.
22. Follow your path - do what you do best.
23. Be someone's champion - encouraging words make a difference.
24. Focus on details - it can make a larger task manageable.
25. Stay balanced - discipline your mind.
26. Use setbacks as motivation - you can always improve.
27. Push yourself to do more - go beyond your limits.
28. Look past discomfort - focus on the goal.
29. Be thankful - cherish your memories.
30. Share joy - it can help someone feel less lonely.
31. Lead by example - raise your standard of excellence.
32. Live with intention - every moment counts.
33. Be determined to succeed - put in the effort required.
34. Embrace challenges - they will make you stronger.
35. Dream big - make a plan.
36. Work hard - you will be rewarded.
37. Grow up - accept life's responsibilities.
38. Be a friend - connection is important.
39. Don't give up - you can do hard things.
40. Inspire others - everyone needs a hero.
41. Say kind words - do good deeds.
42. Volunteer - others need you.
43. Stay hopeful - things might work out.
44. Live a life of service - find your purpose.
45. Be generous - donate to a good cause.
46. Set boundaries - it's healthy.
47. Learn to let go - you aren't always in control.
48. Celebrate accomplishments - extraordinary efforts are worthy of recognition.
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